Showing posts with label bucket filling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bucket filling. Show all posts

Monday, April 21, 2014

Have YOU Filled a Bucket Today?

Howdy Friends!

I don't know about you guys, but this school year feels like a runaway train all of sudden...everything is picking up speed and it will be over before we know it!  In light of that, I thought I better share some of the great work our cookie monster kiddos have been doing despite all the state testing and summer fever.

A few months ago (my how time has flown by!) I posted a book review of my weekend finds.   One of the books I invested in was "Have You Filled A Bucket Today?" by Carol McCloud. This is a great book for discussing empathy and practicing kind words.  We utilized this book in several different ways including saying kind things to other group members, sharing times outside of group when others filled our bucket or dipped into it, and sharing ways to help someone whose bucket is low or empty.  Here are a few ideas on how to fill a bucket from our third grade boys:







  • help people
  • be kind
  • give hi-5s
  • say please & thank you
  • smile










A great companion book is "Bucket Filling from A to Z" also by Carol McCloud, and Caryn Butzke.  This book is a great way to help small groups have open dialogue about all the different ways someone can be a bucket filler, or a bucket dipper.  While reading this book, our 1st/2nd grade group identified several similarities between the scenarios in the book and what really happens at school and home.  




An unknown bonus of this book was its help in developing a sense of insight and personal awareness.  As we worked our way from A to Z, the Cookie Monster kiddos were able to relate to situations we read about- both in being the victim of bucket dipping and in recognizing how to fill a bucket by "treating others as you want to be treated."

After reading both of these uplifting books, each group created a few bucket filling statements to share with the ENTIRE school!  We created a master list of all the kind, encouraging things we might want to hear...and then we made those super awesome words into cards...and then we hung them up in the hallway and invited the whole school to pick up a bucket filling card when they felt their buckets were too low!  Some of the kids wrote jokes to make the person laugh, some traced their hands to give hi-5s, and some simply drew a bright picture and wished the person a good day.  




The best part of this project, all of the Cookie Monster kiddos left small groups feeling good with their buckets full.  For more bucket filling ideas, check out the bucket fillers website!



Kristina

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

You're awake. You're awesome. Live like it.

Heidi Ho friendly bloggers!

As our month focusing on KINDNESS comes to an end, I realized there is someone I think you should meet.  I met him several months ago and he has had a BIG impact on the Cookie Monster room.  So, without further ado, I introduce....

found on: http://www.rantlifestyle.com/2014/01/29/20-reasons-kid-president-better-president-obama/


Kid President.  This kid rocks, literally.  He is kind and insightful and he truly wants everyone to be the best they can be.  Look him up on YouTube!  Then find him on facebook, twitter, and instagram!

Kid President has been teaching the Cookie Monster kiddos a lot, especially about Kindness and how to treat others.  So far, we have learned 20 things we should say more often, how to change the world, and how to be good gift givers.

Here are some things we have learned from KP in his most recent video "A Letter To A Person On Their First Day Here":

  • The world is about kindness and caring
  • Food is delicious
  • Hugs & Smiles & Kisses are Great!
  • It's OK to make mistakes
  • Be a bucket filler, not a bucket dipper
  • Sometimes people are nice, and sometimes they aren't
  • The world is awesome & so are you!


P.S. If you want more inspiring, uplifting, or just plain laugh out loud videos check out Kid President's YouTube channel, Soul Pancake!


Kristina

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Book Review!

Happy (almost) Valentine's Day!

To celebrate this lovely upcoming holiday, I invested in some book love over the weekend.  A trip to Barnes & Noble never fails to brighten my mood, spark my creativity, and fill my bucket.  And speaking of buckets...my mission in this big, book-loving store was to find books and other tools for teaching empathy.  Good News: I hit the jack-pot!  

Here's a preview of my finds...


  • "Have You Filled a Bucket Today?" is a fabulous book by Carol McCloud.  Several schools in our district use this book to encourage positive behavior school wide.  At Hedges, several different classes also utilize this book to teach kids about being a "bucket filler" and a "bucket dipper."  We have already utilized this book in the Cookie Monster room by practicing how to be a "bucket filler."  This week we are practicing saying one kind thing to each member of the group before ending group.  I have heard tough third grade boys say the kindest things this week, and that sure fills my bucket!
  • "Stand in My Shoes" by Bob Sornson is a grrrr-eat book to introduce empathy.  I've had my eye on Stand in My Shoes for quite some time.  In a previous job, I was trained in Parenting with Love and Logic.  I think this method is a great tool to use as a parent, teacher, or school counselor.  The entire method of Parenting with Love and Logic is based on...EMPATHY!  So what better way to explain empathy to elementary learners than with a Love & Logic book written just for them? I'm excited to share this book with the Cookie Monster kiddos and become Empathy Explorers!




This last book was a special one just for me.  "The Whole Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind" by Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson.  If you haven't discovered the wisdom of Dan Siegel, follow the link, I promise you won't regret it. So far in this book, I'm loving the "strategy" sections.  The information is simple but effective and easily shared with families and children.  This is a great book for elementary age kiddos, he has another book titled Brainstorm for insight into the adolescent brain.  I highly recommend both books!  


Kristina